"Lewinsky Love"

Oral sex consists of all sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, which may include the use of the tongue, teeth and throat, to stimulate genitalia or another body part for sexual pleasure. It may be used as foreplay before intercourse, as climax of a sexual act, during or following intercourse. It is sometimes performed to the exclusion of all other forms of sexual activity.

OK so we know the technical definition for getting that oral pleasure and now it is time to get on down to the nitty gritty … lol.

So, I had my first encounter some years back and let me tell yall, I was pleased with then boo's mouth game that I was seeing the sun, moon and stars and damn near speaking in tongues (pun intended).

I mean, I never knew one could achieve such pleasure from something other than a nice piece of pipe. To top it off, boo was packing (like, when I'm on top, I feel it in my tummy) so that was double the pleasure!

Later on that evening, as I laid in that banging ass post-orgasmic bliss thinking about nodding off into never-never land (forgetting about the wet spot in the bed), I got a tap on the shoulder and I'm thinking, yeah, I got this insatiable appetite for pipe (when it's laid right - don't get it twisted), but damn a sista has to rest a lil sumthin sumthin, yanno? Well, my partner had plans for lil ole me. Boo wanted some of that Lewinsky love and a sista was like WTF???

There's nothing wrong with a lil head, but that night, I would not be slobbing the knob … I mean, in the oral sex handbook, is it written that if I receive some oral lovin that I have to reciprocate? Ummm ... NO!

OK I will be the first to admit that I was really naïve in that department because I felt like if a person wants to go down on another, then it's their prerogative, but as far as I was concerned, did I really need to do it back? Well, let me just keep it 100 and say that I made a lot of people mad over my empty promises ... CTFU ... Oops, my bad ... did I just type that? Yeah, I did. Anyway ...

So, did I play head games? (No pun intended.) Well, back then, I wasn't in the business of doing the do with any ole random boo.

Let's fast-forward, shall we? Well, now my views about oral are different, but I do know in any relationship that deals with a man or woman, ultimately, the two need to be on the same accord and have an understanding, so then, of course, it isn't a big deal about it, but any type of sex is something special to me and trust, I don't just be doing it to do it with any ole body ...

I do wanna leave you with this ... There isn't anything wrong with a lil Lewinsky love!

~ Miss Opportunity